46M is faced with an uncomfortable decision - his daughter is getting married, but his brother and ex-girlfriend will be attending. He has previously cut off all ties with his brother and now must consider whether or not to attend the wedding or even pay for it. His daughter and ex-wife have both expressed their anger, but he believes his ...I was incredibly disappointed. I wanted to confront my daughter and potentially not go to the wedding at all if my wife wasn't invited. But my wife said that there's too much bad blood and I should just attend the wedding quietly for my daughter's sake. I ended up attending the wedding alone and left once dinner was done. While I got to see my ...My friend offered to keep it in her closet until the renovations were done. After we finished the renovations, I asked my friend for the dress back. She kept saying she’d get back to me. I kept asking and she’d make up excuses. I found it weird. Now, my sister is getting married and she wanted to wear the dress.When they arrived, I mentioned I had prepared each of them a different room. One for my daughter, one for DIL and one for my grandson. My daughter said I was being unreasonable and that she wanted to sleep in the same room as her wife. I said I made her brother and his wife do the same thing when they visited and they never complained. 157K Likes, 2.8K Comments. TikTok video from Relaxing Time Stories (@relaxingtimestories): "Am I the jerk for ASKING my daughter to INVITE my brother to her wedding... #redditstories #relaxingtimestories". aita for asking my daughter to invite my brother update. original sound - Relaxing Time Stories.7. Be gentle with people’s feelings, whether you're the bride or a guest. “ [As a guest], I think it's better to reach out and go ‘Look, I know you’re getting married. I’m so happy for ...Jan 14, 2022 · Image credits: Chris Martin (not the actual photo) Reddit user u/Downtown-Bowler-8987, with whom Bored Panda got in touch, recently shared a story with the r/AmITheA-Hole community, asking if she is wrong to feel upset for not being involved in her brother’s wedding, despite being the one who’s paying for it. AITA for asking my eldest daughter to sleep on the couch temporarily until we buy a new mattress? My youngest two sons (9 and 11) - lets call them Ryan and Bryan have autism. Unfortunately, they are both non-verbal and require assistance at night as they are prone to accidents/bed-wetting if they aren't woken up at least once in the night to go ... My husband and I are guests. Brother and SIL have been going around venues with her family, and I get emailed the costing if it’s selected. I told my brother I don’t mind paying for the wedding but I feel really weird that everyone else is involved in the decision and I’m just involved with paying.My wife isn't invited to the wedding. I have been divorced for 15 years and married to my wife now for 8 years. My daughter never really liked my wife, they didn't get along well. My other two kids love her. I called my daughter and asked her why my wife isn't invited. She said that it's her wedding day and she only wants to invite her real family. For the last two years, my daughter Mia (10), has had a Christmas party with her friends on the same night I hold an adult Christmas party. This year Mia's party will be a pamper day, followed by a themed "dinner party" and a movie night sleepover. A couple of weeks ago Mia asked me if she had to invite her step-cousin, Georgia (11).Judgement_Bot_AITA • 1 hr. ago. Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole. Please view our voting guide here, and remember to use only one judgement in your comment. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I might be the asshole becuase I am refusing to attend my brother in laws wedding. Help keep the sub engaging! Read this before contacting the mod team. When my husband and I divorced three years ago, my daughter took it fairly well. She (unfortunately) understood why, so it wasn't a shock, but of course it was still a major change. Our main focus was on doing what was best for her, so we tried to involve her as much as was healthy in what the new ...My (f33) brother Ollie (36), his fiancé Lisa, and their kids are currently staying with my family for a holiday. Ollie has a son, Will (7) that he shares with his ex, while Lisa has a daughter, Nia (8) from her previous relationship. I have a daughter, Sienna (6). Over the past few weeks, I’ve taken the kids out numerous places. My sister (35) and her daughter (12) just got out of a bad situation and are staying with me (f33), my husband (m37) and our kids (3f) and m10mo) until they get back on their feet. My husband's parents made him give up his room whenever anyone stayed the night and my husband refuses to let anyone take our kids' rooms because of it. She said no one really likes them. This bothered me so I pressed her, asking if they've ever been unkind to her. She said no, but they have no fashion sense and they're just generally boring. I didn't like the way she was talking, so I said she has to invite them too, if she's inviting literally every other girl in class.My (f33) brother Ollie (36), his fiancé Lisa, and their kids are currently staying with my family for a holiday. Ollie has a son, Will (7) that he shares with his ex, while Lisa has a daughter, Nia (8) from her previous relationship. I have a daughter, Sienna (6). Over the past few weeks, I’ve taken the kids out numerous places.We would like to show you a description here but the site won’t allow us.46M is faced with an uncomfortable decision - his daughter is getting married, but his brother and ex-girlfriend will be attending. He has previously cut off all ties with his brother and now must consider whether or not to attend the wedding or even pay for it. His daughter and ex-wife have both expressed their anger, but he believes his ...Just another Reddit reader, but damn they're good stories!Want to know if you're the asshole? Send us your story!https://linktr.ee/dustythunderhttps://www.du...52 Likes, TikTok video from MemeOriesOfReddit (@memeoriesofreddit): "AITA for kicking out my daughter for what she said about my brother". original sound - MemeOriesOfReddit.In this episode of reddit top posts & best stories from r/AITA : 00:00 : intro00:37 : story107:10 : story216:26 : story3If Your Story appears in one of our v...For my son's 10th birthday we told him he could invite 3 friends over for a sleepover. The party was a ton of fun until the next day, ( for me that is!) I received a text message from the mother of one of my son's friends ( whom was not invited to the party.) She texted " so are you going to make me ask or a are you going to tell me?"In this episode of reddit top posts & best stories from r/AITA : 00:00 : intro00:37 : story107:10 : story216:26 : story3If Your Story appears in one of our v...We would like to show you a description here but the site won’t allow us.My husband too is considered "bad influence" but sometimes we, victims raised by narcs, need outside perspective to see through their years of abuse. By the way, I bet OP is the golden child, who never experienced the abuse as his sister has, that's why he claims it wasn't that bad. Just like my brother still defends our parents to this day. YTAAITA for not bringing NT daughter to my sister's wedding due to autistic child not being invited. My (37m) sister (29f) is getting married in June. I have two daughters one neurotypical (7f) and one high needs nonverbal autistic daughter (5f). My sister made a rule about her wedding no kids under 5, which I think was a "polite" way of excluding ...OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I asked my daughter why she couldn't be more like her siblings, i think this might me an AH because my daughter may be insecure about herself when compared to her elder siblings and this targeted her deep. Help keep the sub engaging! I’ve been excluding my brother’s girlfriend and their daughter from our family vacations in favour of his wife and their kids. I’m still refusing to invite them even though their daughter is getting old enough to understand that her siblings are being favoured over her. Help keep the sub engaging! Don’t downvote assholes!AITA for not bringing NT daughter to my sister's wedding due to autistic child not being invited . My (37m) sister (29f) is getting married in June. ... OP YTA for punishing your daughter and telling her that the reason she can’t go is her sibling isn’t invited. This is a brick that will be a building block in a wall of resentment as time ...that's exactly what I was thinking lol. Oh and remember, this is a combo of *too many kids + parentification* and *stepmom bad* trolling. 1. gele-gel • 1 yr. ago. Had she asked her daughter to wake up 20 mins earlier to HELP her with breakfast and the kids, she may have gotten a different response.AITA for not inviting my mom to my wedding. So I (27M) am getting married next fall to my wonderful fiancé amber (28F). My parents divorced when I was 2. My mom remarried to her current husband, they had 1 child together along with his 2 children. My dad remarried and has one daughter. Meaning that you invite her on the condition that she not bother you about the name anymore, in any way. Then whether she agrees or not, she's TA either way. - If she agrees and breaks her word, she's TA. - If it's so important to her that she won't agree, she's TA for not coming to the shower. I, host of the NextDoor Neighbor Pod and my wife read wild, funny, and entertaining stories from reddit. Specifically the AITA (Am I the As*hole) thread.Full...In case this story gets deleted/removed: AITA For Asking My Daughter To Help Out Her Brother. I(41F) have 2 children, Anne (13F) and Dylan (14M). Anne has always been good with money and spends it on things she actually needs, and will occasionally treat herself to a few books or a treat. When we were 13 my friend invited me to go to the mall with them, and before we left their house to go her dad pulled me aside to tell me it would be appropriate to buy his wife lunch for letting me go with them. I had $20 that my mom gave me for my lunch and to maybe buy one cheaper item so I panicked a little inside.I have a friend who does this and I have gently tried to tell her that pushing the issue might make it worse. OP’s friend said there was no problem and she just had a small gathering, and they could do something one on one. That should be the end of it, and OP should have shifted to planning a one on one day. 3.From all of us there are a total of 7 kids, including my brother's daughter and my stepdaughter. Me and my SD were hurt when we realized my SD wasn't a part of this third. Recently I brought up to my brother that he should share niece's inheritance with SD. I said it's more fair this way and would lower resentment between the kids later on.Meaning that you invite her on the condition that she not bother you about the name anymore, in any way. Then whether she agrees or not, she's TA either way. - If she agrees and breaks her word, she's TA. - If it's so important to her that she won't agree, she's TA for not coming to the shower. Jan 14, 2022 · Image credits: Chris Martin (not the actual photo) Reddit user u/Downtown-Bowler-8987, with whom Bored Panda got in touch, recently shared a story with the r/AmITheA-Hole community, asking if she is wrong to feel upset for not being involved in her brother’s wedding, despite being the one who’s paying for it. Dusty Thunder covers r/AITA (and other Reddit stories) and provides reactions to each story.https://www.dusty-thunder.com/https://linktr.ee/dustythunderOrigi...YTA, if she's really no contact with you, she won't come to the wedding even with an invite--in which case you have nothing to lose and no conflict here. I'm also suspicious about the lack of ages in this post. defonotmadz • 6 mo. ago. there is a lot of people (i 36) (partner 52) (step daughter 24) his 3rd 18.YTA, if she's really no contact with you, she won't come to the wedding even with an invite--in which case you have nothing to lose and no conflict here. I'm also suspicious about the lack of ages in this post. defonotmadz • 6 mo. ago. there is a lot of people (i 36) (partner 52) (step daughter 24) his 3rd 18.52 Likes, TikTok video from MemeOriesOfReddit (@memeoriesofreddit): "AITA for kicking out my daughter for what she said about my brother". original sound - …I only invited my dads disabled best friend to my wedding on the condition he was the plus one on his daughter and full time carers invite. She had the audacity to ask if she could bring a date and her dad bring a carer so she could have a night off. I …My nephew (8M) is a walking tornado. As I suspected, despite me already telling my brother that our place is now packed with fragile objects and decorative items, and that he should keep an eye on his son, my nephew broke a glass statue (more like a sculpture, it was Sarah's favourite item in the house). Sarah and I are honestly tired of my ... My Dad: First off, he wanted me to tell all of you that he loved all the support and that he wishes to Dad all of you as well. His words: "It took 2 of us to make you, and I gotta say I love my work. Any parent that doesn't should never have tried." My Mom: She had called me asking why I brought up the events of my uncle's wedding. I told her ...Meaning that you invite her on the condition that she not bother you about the name anymore, in any way. Then whether she agrees or not, she's TA either way. - If she agrees and breaks her word, she's TA. - If it's so important to her that she won't agree, she's TA for not coming to the shower.AITA for refusing to help my brother & his family? For context, I have one older brother. I have 2 kids, and he has 2 with his wife. All of our kids are school aged. His 2 and my youngest go to the same school. My SIL doesn’t work. Hasn’t in years. She doesn’t have a license. My brother works full time. My brother was saving up to buy a house and living w our mom for $400 a month but they were fighting nonstop so we offered to rent a room out to him for $500 if he could help watch my son for a few hours a week and help me get to my appointments. he ended up taking the master but offered to pay $800 instead. (our place is $2500 a month, but we ...I was in a pinch, so I decided to ask my older children. My oldest son was at work but I knew my daughter was home so I called her and asked if she could pick her brother up, walk him home, and makes sure he eats the dinner I prepared. She refused to, and maybe I was being too pushy, but I asked her again.First up at (23:48) it's AITA for telling my daughter to butt out of my personal life and asking her to stay with her mom? Then it's the namesake at (38:53). We wrap up on a …I was in a pinch, so I decided to ask my older children. My oldest son was at work but I knew my daughter was home so I called her and asked if she could pick her brother up, walk him home, and makes sure he eats the dinner I prepared. She refused to, and maybe I was being too pushy, but I asked her again.The post says that she has reached out, but it’s pretty unclear language. Hard to tell based on the sole line “she’s also been trying to reach out to me a couple of months ago, and asked my dad if he could ask me to have a talk with her,” but that sorta implies she reached out alone and didn’t get s response from op and now is asking their dad to reach out. …NTA, assuming any in-laws are paying for the wedding. In that case, you have every right to request a +1 for your other daughter, and Jane is being unreasonable in trying to control every aspect of the wedding, particularly when this one exception has no bearing on the outcome of the wedding. 1. masterm • 1 yr. ago. You made a promise to pay for her wedding under the expectation that you'd be allowed the same courtesies as anyone else - to bring your +1, and if 8ts not child free, to bring your child. Those are basic standards. Keep your money for someone who respects your basic human rights. Perhaps her 2nd marriage. You made a promise to pay for her wedding under the expectation that you'd be allowed the same courtesies as anyone else - to bring your +1, and if 8ts not child free, to bring your child. Those are basic standards. Keep your money for someone who respects your basic human rights. Perhaps her 2nd marriage.AITA for essentially declining my younger brother’s offer to be his sponsor. Me (17M) and my younger brother (13M) tend to not get along very much. One day after mass, my mom (46F) was nudging my brother to ask me a question. He hesitated as he spoke and asked if I will be his sponsor, almost as if he didn’t want to ask me.Asking your stepdaughter to clean up some water that you spilled is undoubtedly strange behavior. “AITA for telling my husband my daughter doesn’t have to accommodate his needs?” – this internet user …Tell your sister your daughter is having her birthday the way she wants to just like your sister had her wedding the way she wanted to same thing. Tell her not to be a hypocriteInviting her to your daughter’s party will be upsetting for your daughter and will be rewarding her for her bad behavior. Stick by your original position and do not invite her. If the mother is so concerned about her daughter being included, she should focus on her daughter’s bullying and prevent it in the future.I33f have 3, loud hyper young children. My husband and I are hosting a bbq this wknd. We invited family and friends, but chose not to invite my brother, bc my SIL alwaysss complains and demeans. “The dog smells, the kids are too loud, I have a migraine, I’m ready to go, this yard is filled with junk, bla blah blah” all the time, never fails.Mar 27, 2023 · Advertisement. 8. "AITA for lying to my wife about the length of my work trip to avoid a vacation with the in-laws?" "My wife (31F) and her family (my in-laws) had a five-day-long family vacation ... 52 Likes, TikTok video from MemeOriesOfReddit (@memeoriesofreddit): "AITA for kicking out my daughter for what she said about my brother". original sound - …I was incredibly disappointed. I wanted to confront my daughter and potentially not go to the wedding at all if my wife wasn't invited. But my wife said that there's too much bad blood and I should just attend the wedding quietly for my daughter's sake. I ended up attending the wedding alone and left once dinner was done. While I got to see my ...I was told we were all meeting for Xmas so I still got her daughter a gift and a card with only her name. Later we discover that they have decided not to come to Christmas. So she then sends me a message calling “rude and disrespectful” for not including her daughter on the Christmas card and claiming her daughter was “devastated.”.OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I refuse to let my stepdaughter move into our house. 2. She broke up with her bf recently and might be forced to keep living with him if she can’t find another living situation. My wife thinks the reasons I have for not letting her move back in are not ...First up at (23:48) it's AITA for telling my daughter to butt out of my personal life and asking her to stay with her mom? Then it's the namesake at (38:53). We wrap up on a …Feb 15, 2023 · Image source: u/Suspicious_Pair_4940. “AITA for telling my daughter that I won’t be attending her wedding?” – this father took to one of Reddit’s most judgmental groups to ask its members if it was wrong of him to reject his daughter’s wedding invitation because she didn’t invite his wife and kids. The post managed to garner over ... AITA for not attending my brothers wedding. My brother and future sister in law (FSIL) are getting married next month in their home. FSIL and I had been very close. She invited me to be a bridesmaid and my daughter a flower girl. But as I got to know her more I started to see more and more red flags.The oldest daughter chose to get married on the first anniverary of her sister's death. She knew about the passing before finalizing that date. That was her choice, and anyone with a bit of empathy and compassion would understand why OP probably would not have been able to attend. OP is mourning a fresh loss.My wife isn't invited to the wedding. I have been divorced for 15 years and married to my wife now for 8 years. My daughter never really liked my wife, they didn't get along well. My other two kids love her. I called my daughter and asked her why my wife isn't invited. She said that it's her wedding day and she only wants to invite her real family.AITA for not inviting my brother or his family to my son's wedding until his daughter apologises for her actions? Hi all. My son David is getting married early next year. For the wedding we invited everyone in the family except my brother's family, and I've had my parents and sister calling me constantly demanding I change my mind. A reader asks how to handle a boss that threatens to fire people if they don't sign up to be a liver donor for his brother. By clicking "TRY IT", I agree to receive newsletters and promotions from Money and its partners. I agree to Money's ...In this episode of reddit top posts & best stories from r/AITA : 00:00 : intro00:37 : story107:10 : story216:26 : story3If Your Story appears in one of our v...AITA for asking my daughter to invite my brother to her wedding? - 07 December 2022 I (52F) am currently in the process of helping my daughter (F36) plan her wedding to her fiancee (F38). We are currently in the process of planning out the guest list. Boomerfierce • Asshole Enthusiast [5] • 2 yr. ago. Yep. My daughter had her first birthday party at 7, invited the whole class and we had 14 of them show, not counting the …From all of us there are a total of 7 kids, including my brother's daughter and my stepdaughter. Me and my SD were hurt when we realized my SD wasn't a part of this third. Recently I brought up to my brother that he should share niece's inheritance with SD. I said it's more fair this way and would lower resentment between the kids later on.She said no one really likes them. This bothered me so I pressed her, asking if they've ever been unkind to her. She said no, but they have no fashion sense and they're just generally boring. I didn't like the way she was talking, so I said she has to invite them too, if she's inviting literally every other girl in class.Inviting her to your daughter’s party will be upsetting for your daughter and will be rewarding her for her bad behavior. Stick by your original position and do not invite her. If the mother is so concerned about her daughter being included, she should focus on her daughter’s bullying and prevent it in the future.AITA For asking my daughter to help out with our family? I (38F) have 3 kids, all girls. 17f(April), 8f(May) and 5f(June). April and May have the same Father. He passed when May was 2. June is the result of a ONS, he pays support but rarely sees her. I work 3 jobs to keep us afloat and have told the girls we need to support each other to make it.I was in a pinch, so I decided to ask my older children. My oldest son was at work but I knew my daughter was home so I called her and asked if she could pick her brother up, walk him home, and makes sure he eats the dinner I prepared. She refused to, and maybe I was being too pushy, but I asked her again.It happens. I was 20 When my mom died, everything fell on me for the most part. My older brother helped when I asked, but 100% of my measly check went into the house. I coordinated all the other financials like ssi payments, state aid, made sure everything was paid and food in the house not to mention bulk of cleaning while caretaking my grandma. My daughter is 18, and I found out through a slip of the tongue that she is planning to marry her boyfriend in the local courthouse in just a few days. They were doing it secretly. I blew up and ...By Rebecca Flood On 12/29/21 at 5:26 AM EST. Culture Wedding Marriage Transgender Family. A woman has been branded "gross" for uninviting her transgender sister from her wedding, after her mom and ...AITA For Asking My Daughter To Invite My Brother To Her Wedding Author admin Posted on December 9, 2022 December 9, 2022 Categories Uncategorized Post navigationYou made a promise to pay for her wedding under the expectation that you'd be allowed the same courtesies as anyone else - to bring your +1, and if 8ts not child free, to bring your child. Those are basic standards. Keep your money for someone who respects your basic human rights. Perhaps her 2nd marriage. NTA The famous song says, “Lord help the mister who comes between me and my sister, but Lord help the sister who comes between me and my man.”. This sister messed up and you don’t have to have her at your wedding just because she says so. Your mother now has to choose daughters and it isn’t you.We wanted it to be just us and the people that matter to us most. Both of us have asked both of our parents and our siblings. We each have one brother. When I told my brother (20M) about our plans for the ceremony he was over joyed about the ceremony until he said that he would be would be bring his gf (20M). In this episode of reddit top posts & best stories from r/AITA : 00:00 : intro00:36 : story109:16 : story217:44 : story3If Your Story appears in one of our v...The problem, perhaps one I should have seen coming, is that it’s a small neighborhood and the girl has noticed that my daughter invites her to hang out way less frequently now. Her parents called me and said it seemed like my daughter and her had cooled off and they were wondering if I knew what was going on. I explained.In addition to the bride and groom, a traditional wedding rehearsal dinner t, In case this story gets deleted/removed: AITA For Asking My Daughter To Help Out Her Brother. 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